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In reality, your wedding night is only one night of many thousands that you will spend with your wife. If you don’t have that mind-blowing sex you thought you’d have on your wedding night then it really doesn’t matter. What’s important is that you both do what you want to – if that’s just going to sleep in each other’s arms, then do that! Perhaps you might want to just sit together in bed and talk about the day, maybe opening and reading the cards that you have received from your guests.

A recent study showed that only 48% of newlyweds have sex on their wedding night!

However, if some wedding night fun is what you really want, then here’s a few tips to help make sure it happens:

1) Flirt with each other
Flirting with your wife throughout the day can really help. This doesn’t have to be blatant in front of all the guests but maybe occasionally whispering to her some of the naughty things you will do to her when you get back up to the room will really help. It will play in her mind and will turn her on. Also, take the time to steal the occasional kiss, look into her eyes, hold her hand, and dance with her. It all helps to build anticipation as the wedding night approaches.

2) Prepare the room for loving!
Decorating the bedroom a little can help to create a really romantic atmosphere. While the party is going on, you could sneak up to the room (or even have one of the bridesmaids or best man do it for you) and lay out some robes and slippers, get a bottle of champagne on ice (with glasses and perhaps some fruit) and maybe some candles (though don’t light these too far in advance, we don’t want any fires!). Scented candles can work even better, and you can fill the room with fragrance with some nice flowers or even a few drops of essential oil on your sheets.

If you have an iPod, or something which plays music in the room, line up some nice romantic songs, ready to be played as you enter later on.

Finally, its great if you can get some nice rose petals in the room, covering the bed and floor. They can just toss them everywhere, no skill needed. However, if you have time, you could create a heart shape using the petals on your bed. You can order rose petals on line and have them delivered a few days before the wedding. You can keep them in the freezer to help avoid them losing their fragrance and colour too quickly.

3) Make sure you are going to be ‘up’ for the job!
Getting crazy drunk is what the stag night is for. On your wedding night, you can have a few drinks but don’t get so legless that’s its going to ruin things later on when back in the room. It might seem like the bar is free but remember – you are the one likely to be paying for it!

(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Making sure you eat during the day will also help as it will soak up some of the alcohol. Ignore your friends if they try to get you drunk and start buying shots – again, that’s what the stag night was for! Your wedding night should be memorable… so you need to be able to remember it!

4) Carry her across the threshold
It’s quite likely your wife will be expecting you to do this so don’t let her down! This is a wedding tradition dating back to Roman times, and is said to ensure good luck for the happy couple.

5) Turn on the music
If you prepared the room earlier, just press the switch on your Ipod/Stereo and let the love tunes play!

6) Offer her a Massage
It’s highly likely that she will have been wearing some uncomfortable footwear throughout the day (it’s a female thing!) and will love you for offering to give her a foot massage. You could go from there to a full body massage and see what follows!

7) The Morning After
In general, women love breakfast in bed. Arrange for someone else to make it and bring it to your room if you are staying in a hotel or if you have people staying at your house (not too early though, you will probably want a good sleep). If it’s accompanied by a glass of Champagne or Bucks Fizz then there is a good chance you’ll follow it up with some more loving!

And there you have it. 7 great tips for ensuring you get some action on your wedding night. One other great idea is to buy your wife some sexy lingerie for her to wear once you get back to the room. If you are doing this, try to keep it classy (unless you know for a fact she won’t mind something a little naughtier), get the right size, and tell her in advance that this is what you are doing (as there is a good chance she will spend time searching for, and buying, something herself). Ann Summers, Bedtime Flirt, Pabo and Agent Provocateur all stock the perfect type of thing.

The most important thing is to not place too much importance on the sex, and for you to both do what feels right at the end of the night.

Greg Williams operates within the wedding trade and is an experienced public speaker. he is passionate about making weddings unique and more interesting, and has written guides for Groom’s, the Best Man, the Father of Bride and the Bride on how to make their wedding speech rhyme. Check out http://ift.tt/1cz1mJf for the guide, and http://ift.tt/1oyupyl for his wedding blog aimed at men.

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